So Leudde,
ich hab mir hier für meinen Blog eine neue Heimat gesucht. Somit wird dieser Blog natürlich nicht weiter aktualisiert.
Trotzdem lohnt sich natürlich hier eine Blick auf die alten Posts.
Hier gehts zum neuen Blog
Also in diesem Sinne… spread the vibe!
Wednesday, November 21, 2007
Thursday, November 8, 2007
Pickup Congress 2007
Christian, die coole Sau über den Unterschied der Community in USA und in Deutschland. Aus all den Gesprächen mit den Amis in Berlin und München kann ich nur sagen... wir sind hier in der Community auf jeden fall auf dem richtigen Weg.
Don't fake it - be it... werdet zu einer verführerischen Persönlichkeit, dann ist es auch egal ob "wer lügt mehr" inzwischen zu bekannt ist oder nicht.
Don't fake it - be it... werdet zu einer verführerischen Persönlichkeit, dann ist es auch egal ob "wer lügt mehr" inzwischen zu bekannt ist oder nicht.
Pickup Congress 2007
Max nochmal kurz über sein Bild von Pickup... wie ich finde einfach eine sehr gute Einstellung
Friday, September 21, 2007
Sunday, September 9, 2007
Monday, August 20, 2007
Sunday, August 19, 2007
Pickup Congress 2007
Ein "Must" für jeden PUA in Deutschland. Der Pickup Congress vom 19.10 bis 21.10 in Berlin.
Mehr Infos auf Likin's Blog
oder direkt auf Pickupcongress.de
Anmeldung am Besten direkt über Pickup-News.de
Mehr Infos auf Likin's Blog
oder direkt auf Pickupcongress.de
Anmeldung am Besten direkt über Pickup-News.de
Monday, August 13, 2007
Thursday, August 9, 2007
Wednesday, August 8, 2007
Tuesday, August 7, 2007
Sunday, July 15, 2007
Mentaltraining
http://www.aa-training.ch/
Absoluter Insidertipp. Habe zweimal teilgenommen und werde mich demnächst als Wiederholer
anmelden. Falls Du Lust hast, können wir ja zusammen hin. Vermittlung der Inhalte völlig
wert- und dogmenfrei (vor allem auch ohne den Esotherik-Kram). Das ist übrigens auch der Grund, warum Hypnose und hypnotische Manipulation bei mir nicht mehr funktioniert. Wurde im
Seminar damals immunisiert. Werde das Thema aber mal wieder in Bezug auf die aktuellen
PUA-Thematiken auffrischen, denn habe das gut ein Jahr gar nicht mehr angewendet (leider...).
Absoluter Insidertipp. Habe zweimal teilgenommen und werde mich demnächst als Wiederholer
anmelden. Falls Du Lust hast, können wir ja zusammen hin. Vermittlung der Inhalte völlig
wert- und dogmenfrei (vor allem auch ohne den Esotherik-Kram). Das ist übrigens auch der Grund, warum Hypnose und hypnotische Manipulation bei mir nicht mehr funktioniert. Wurde im
Seminar damals immunisiert. Werde das Thema aber mal wieder in Bezug auf die aktuellen
PUA-Thematiken auffrischen, denn habe das gut ein Jahr gar nicht mehr angewendet (leider...).
Rules for gaming with Skull in the field
- Preasure always generates back pressure. Never force him to access sets he is not willing to open for unobvious reasons.
- {Unobvious reason}:=accompanist(s) in our group you count as your fellow(s) but he only counts as a mutual friend and who is unaware of the gaming strategy. He never disgraces himself towards a group of those and will never open his personality for them as long as companions are just loose or even no trusted class A friends for him.
- {Unobvious reason}:=accompanist(s) in our group you count as your fellow(s) but he only counts as a mutual friend and who is unaware of the gaming strategy. He never disgraces himself towards a group of those and will never open his personality for them as long as companions are just loose or even no trusted class A friends for him.
- trusted class A friend:=[Angel V]
So, damit sollte dann eigentlich klar sein, warum ich keine Sets vor Luigi oder sonst wem außer Dir öffne.
Friday, July 13, 2007
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Monday, July 9, 2007
Sunday, July 8, 2007
Craig's Clubgame
Schönes Beispiel für ein natürliches smoothes Clubgame...
Craig’s Method…The Natural Way
One of the main reasons why I succeed in bars and most go home alone is because. I have a system, one that has taken me years to perfect. When I was first starting out in the game I tried all kinds of crazy things to meet women, from giving them business cards to doing card tricks, even trying to hypnotize them! I had a few successes here and there, but what always bothered me was that the techniques just didn’t seem natural.Not to mention the fact that when I ran out of lines I would get run over. I knew there were guys out there who got hoards of women without even trying, and that was my ultimate goal.
A few years ago I had a major realization and I started pulling women like crazy. It came at a very frustrating time in my life, when I was about to throw in the towel and give up on being the guy who has women all over him.
My major turning point came when I decided to throw all I thought I knew about meeting women in the trash. I was so frustrated with the rejections and my weak successes that I decided I was just going to go out and have a FUCKING AWESOME TIME! I decided that if I didn’t come home with anybody it wouldn’t matter anymore, because I would have a blast, and make everyone in the bar have a better night because I was there!
I didn’t get laid that first night, but I met more girls than I ever had before and I could not believe the positive responses I was getting. Girls were picking up on the vibe that I was only there to have a good time, and I was having such a blast that it was contagious! Girls that I talked to early in the night were coming back up to me and striking up conversations!
Its been many years since I first started on my path to mastery, and these days whenever I go out, I meet a lot of women, whether I want to or not! When I set out to write this book I took a hard look at what I do now compared to what I did then, and hopefully what I’ve found will help you to reach your goals faster than I did.
As you know my goal has always been to become a natural seducer, and when I was starting out I tried to watch the guys that got a lot of women in the clubs and learn from them. The problem was that I couldn’t for the life of me figure out what they were doing that was so different. They usually weren’t the best-dressed guys in the house, and almost never the best looking.
It didn’t hit me until I started picking up all kinds of women that there was a distinct format to my style, and that format is the foundation of my success. There are dozens of little things I do to enhance my game, but they alone do not get me laid. You have to bake the cake before you can put on the icing!
The Circle Format
One thing I noticed when I first started doing this is that losers the in a club would stand around and drink and watch, while guys with game would walk around and make things happen. The guys with lots of game would be sitting at a table with different beautiful women around them all night like they were famous. That is where I wanted to be, and I discovered that you have to put a lot of walking and talking to get to there.
The thing I like about most clubs and bars is that they are built in a way that creates a good flow around the inside, and you can usually walk around the whole place in a big circle without having to backtrack. Walking around the club in big circles is the basis of my format, and it’s what you DO when you are walking around that makes all of the difference.
When you first arrive at a venue you have to set a presence for yourself, and it’s important to get in the right state of mind before you walk in. Think of yourself as the owner of the club, because tonight, the place is yours! Say it aloud! Whenever I walk through the doors of a club, I stop, look around, and say “MY HOUSE!”
After you are inside and you check you coat, get your drink, etc., start your walk around the club. When you see a girl or group of girls you want to meet, go in and say something funny or interesting that isn’t something they have already heard ten times that night.
An example conversation could go like this:
Me: (serious look) “Hey.Are you guys going to like me better the 3rd time you see me?”
Girls: “Huh.What do you mean?”
Me: “Well I’ve already walked past you guys twice and you guys haven’t said “hi” to me or “hello” or grabbed my ass or anything! What’s goin on?”
Girls: (laughing) “Hi my name’s Jen, and this is Carrie. What’s yours?”
Me: “Craig. Nice to meet you. Now, next time I see you all I’m going to expect a warm welcome!”
Here comes the MOST powerful part of this technique.After you exchange a few laughs.MOVE ON OUT! This is huge because every other guy they have ever met has leached on at the first sign of acceptance and tried to hang out with them all night! How desperate is that? By ending the conversation first you have shown them that you are a secure guy who doesn’t care if he sees them again, or if they talk to other guys. And why should you? You have many more groups of women to approach!
The whole idea here is to get them laughing, show them you are a fun guy that they would want to hang out with, then leave.with them wanting more! In sales this is called a takeaway.
Do the same thing with the next group. If a girl is by herself don’t leave her out of the loop, but don’t use that as an excuse to latch on. If a conversation is going really well with a certain group or girl, it is ok to keep it up, just make sure that you are the one to end it and that you end it
while both of you are still laughing and having fun.
This structure eliminates a lot of mistakes and conveys a lot of important things. Lets take a look at what’s going on here, and why this works:
· You are showing every woman you meet that you are a fun guy with a great personality.
· Since you are only talking to each group for a short time and you are the one that is ending the conversation, you show them that you aren’t desperate for their attention and you create a challenge. You leave them wanting more!
· You will be seen talking to lots of women, which will make you look desirable and create competition. This is known as “Social Proof”, and creates a presence with everyone around you.
· You are creating a familiarity with these women, so the next time you see them, it’s like you are old buds! The hardest part is behind you!
Best of all, this format allows you to meet tons of women while naturally walking around the club having fun. You are going to have a GREAT time and meet LOTS of people!
I relate this structure to fishing, because it reminds me a TV special I saw once on sharks. When scientists want to catch some sharks to study, they dump a bunch of blood and fish guts in the water to get them all riled up. There’s no real meat in there, but it lets the sharks know that there is something around, and it gets them alert and looking for food.
This is what you’re doing with your initial approach and takeaway. You are letting the girls know you’re in the house and that you are different from the rest of the guys, and you keep them wanting more. I think they said it best in the movie “Swingers”. It’s all about letting the girls know that you’re money and you’re ready to party!
Starting the Frenzy
By the time you are finished with lap number one you will probably have talked to 10-20 girls, some alone and some in groups. There is no set time frame for how long this should take, because every club is different and some conversations will last longer than others. Sometimes I will finish my first lap without doing any approaches because there are no hot women in the bar. In those cases the first lap is usually my last!
On your second go-round you are going to see a few or all of the girls you met on the first pass, depending on the size of the club. Of course some of them will be in the bathroom, on the dance floor, gone home, etc., but new girls are always emerging to take their places. Don’t get lazy and leave them out of the fun!
The girls that you are seeing for the second time already have a good impression of you, and now they’ve seen you talking with lots of other women, so they view you not only as ok to be seen with, but also as desirable to the opposite sex. I don’t need to tell you that this is a good thing!
Now that you have gotten things brewing, it’s time to pull out the bait and see if she grabs it! Your bait is what you do when you see a girl or group of women you have already approached. The goal here is to have a conversation start naturally, like it would if you had met them before.
Your bait can be the same type of thing you did the first time (Eg. Get her laughing with a joke about something in the club, tell a short funny story, ask her a question, etc.) or something on a smaller scale, like a look and a smile. Other things you could do would be to give her a high five, touch her glass with yours as you walk by and say “cheers”, or my personal favorite, and accuse
her of following you, and tell her to stop!
From now on every time you see her throw her some kind of bait and see if she grabs on to it. By throwing the bait you are giving her an easy way to start talking to you, and that is what you are waiting for. For instance, if you make a joke, see if she makes a funny comment back. If you touch her glass and say “cheers”, she might ask you what you’re drinking. She may say something unrelated to your bait, like “Nice necklace” or “Where did you get that ring?” If she asks you a question it’s always a good sign. One that I here all of the time is, “You look familiar.Where do I know you from?” To this I answer, “Do you watch adult movies?”
If she doesn’t take the bait keep on walking! Some girls will take the bait right away and a conversation will start naturally, and other conversations might not happen until you have seen them 5 or 6 six times. That’s a good thing, because every time you see her you are reminding her about you and building anticipation.
The most important thing you are doing here that most guys miss is that you are setting yourself up as a challenge. People don’t value what they don’t have to work for, and to most women, especially attractive women, men are too easy!
Imagine if you were a beautiful woman, and you had guys kissing your ass and begging to be with you your entire life. It gets old fast, and when a woman like this meets a man who doesn’t put her on a pedestal and makes her chase after him, it drives her crazy!
Every woman loves a challenge, and this will separate you from 99% of the guys out there. Ask a few girls you know about this, and ask them to describe how a man can be a challenge to them. You will gain some really valuable insight.
The familiarity that this method creates is one of the reasons why it is so effective. If you do your job on the first contact with a new girl, or group of girls, the next time you see them they will remember you and all of their walls will have come down.
This plays a HUGE part when you are dealing with groups, because when women go out they will naturally try to keep their friends together and keep them from getting hit on. If you approach the group as a whole a few times and show them what type of person you are, it will make it much easier to isolate your target when that time comes. Instead of the girls being cautious about their friend leaving, they will be jealous!
Reeling in the Fish
After a few rounds in the club you are probably going to have a one or two women that you have a really good feeling about. Maybe the two of you had a great conversation, maybe she “accidentally” touched your arm a few too many times, or maybe she is just the hottest woman you’ve talked to all night. Either way, it’s time to close the deal!
Now that you have it narrowed down it’s ok to seek your woman out, and the sooner the better. Make sure you stick with the bait formula. When you find her say something funny, ask her a question, or make a comment about something to give her the opportunity to start a conversation.
If she’s with her group of friends, it’s time to isolate her and make your move! You don’t have to take her away from her friends completely, but it is important to get into a one-on-one conversation with her.
Remember, the main reason her friends may try to “cockblock” is because they aren’t sure if their friend is into you and they want to “save” her. Hopefully when you were making your rounds you talked to the group as a whole, or they at least saw their friend give you a positive reaction. This familiarity will give you a big advantage.
Ending Conversations
It’s always good to end a conversation first, and a great way to do it is to say, “Hey it was nice meeting you.I’m gonna catch up with my friends. Maybe I’ll see you later”.
Saying “maybe” is very important. It shows that you don’t care if you do see her again, and it leaves her wondering if you will. If you say, “I’ll catch up with you later” she knows that she is gonna see you again and it removes part of the mystery and the challenge that women need to feel attraction.
On Group Approaches and Cock Blocks
If a girl is with her friends but they are out of earshot or already talking to others, it is ok to single her out and talk to her by herself. If her friends come back and interrupt don’t worry about it.It’s their job to watch out for their friend. Think nothing of it and include her friends in the conversation.
If one of her friends completely captures her attention for more than a few seconds, don’t stand around like a puppy! If you were just throwing a little bait and the two of you hadn’t really started talking yet, keep right on walking without saying anything. If the conversation was flowing nicely you can do one of two things.
Your first option is to end the conversation as you normally would, but shorten it to, “Maybe I’ll see you later” and walk away. If it’s really on or it’s getting late and your not sure if you will see her again, turn away at least 90 degrees and do something. Light a smoke, order a drink, check your phone, etc, and wait for HER to come back to YOU. If she doesn’t come back, either start talking to someone else or walk away. When you see her again she will respect you for being your own person and not waiting around like a chump.
On-Going Cycle
The nice thing about this cycle is that it doesn’t limit itself to one night, because you are always meeting new girls and throwing bait to old ones. I used to live in a smaller town with only 3 bars, and at the end of every night there would be certain girls that I had talked too only once and others that I had talked too 3 or 4 times a night for months.
Some of the girls would come around eventually and we would end up hooking up, while others became great bar buddies that would introduce me to their cute girlfriends! Damn I love this stuff!
When I moved to a bigger city I thought it would be different since there are literally hundreds of bars here, but I learned that every town has it’s own bar scene and you will always run into a lot of the same people. The cycle continues!
The Natural Way
When I go out to a club I look like a normal, social guy that happens to get a lot of women. No one would ever label me a “Lounge Lizard” or a “Pimp”, because to the untrained eye and the women around, it appears as though I am just hanging out like everyone else, and having a little bit more fun. This is very important because if a woman thinks you are a pick up artist and you do this all the time, you will have to work ten times harder to make it happen.
I have a friend that I go out clubbing with all of the time, but we never really talk about techniques since we have very different styles. He overheard me explaining this method to someone and said, “You mean you are actually doing something when you are walking around like that?” And I hit the town with this guy all the time!
This format is designed to be a natural way to meet women. If you want to grab a drink or have a smoke along the way, feel free. You are there to have a great time! If you run into some of your buddies, by all means stay and have a beer. If you run into some girls that you know, stay and chat longer because the other girls in the club will see you (social proof) and your girlfriends
may know some cuties that you should meet!
(posted by Craig on Mystery’s Lounge)
Craig’s Method…The Natural Way
One of the main reasons why I succeed in bars and most go home alone is because. I have a system, one that has taken me years to perfect. When I was first starting out in the game I tried all kinds of crazy things to meet women, from giving them business cards to doing card tricks, even trying to hypnotize them! I had a few successes here and there, but what always bothered me was that the techniques just didn’t seem natural.Not to mention the fact that when I ran out of lines I would get run over. I knew there were guys out there who got hoards of women without even trying, and that was my ultimate goal.
A few years ago I had a major realization and I started pulling women like crazy. It came at a very frustrating time in my life, when I was about to throw in the towel and give up on being the guy who has women all over him.
My major turning point came when I decided to throw all I thought I knew about meeting women in the trash. I was so frustrated with the rejections and my weak successes that I decided I was just going to go out and have a FUCKING AWESOME TIME! I decided that if I didn’t come home with anybody it wouldn’t matter anymore, because I would have a blast, and make everyone in the bar have a better night because I was there!
I didn’t get laid that first night, but I met more girls than I ever had before and I could not believe the positive responses I was getting. Girls were picking up on the vibe that I was only there to have a good time, and I was having such a blast that it was contagious! Girls that I talked to early in the night were coming back up to me and striking up conversations!
Its been many years since I first started on my path to mastery, and these days whenever I go out, I meet a lot of women, whether I want to or not! When I set out to write this book I took a hard look at what I do now compared to what I did then, and hopefully what I’ve found will help you to reach your goals faster than I did.
As you know my goal has always been to become a natural seducer, and when I was starting out I tried to watch the guys that got a lot of women in the clubs and learn from them. The problem was that I couldn’t for the life of me figure out what they were doing that was so different. They usually weren’t the best-dressed guys in the house, and almost never the best looking.
It didn’t hit me until I started picking up all kinds of women that there was a distinct format to my style, and that format is the foundation of my success. There are dozens of little things I do to enhance my game, but they alone do not get me laid. You have to bake the cake before you can put on the icing!
The Circle Format
One thing I noticed when I first started doing this is that losers the in a club would stand around and drink and watch, while guys with game would walk around and make things happen. The guys with lots of game would be sitting at a table with different beautiful women around them all night like they were famous. That is where I wanted to be, and I discovered that you have to put a lot of walking and talking to get to there.
The thing I like about most clubs and bars is that they are built in a way that creates a good flow around the inside, and you can usually walk around the whole place in a big circle without having to backtrack. Walking around the club in big circles is the basis of my format, and it’s what you DO when you are walking around that makes all of the difference.
When you first arrive at a venue you have to set a presence for yourself, and it’s important to get in the right state of mind before you walk in. Think of yourself as the owner of the club, because tonight, the place is yours! Say it aloud! Whenever I walk through the doors of a club, I stop, look around, and say “MY HOUSE!”
After you are inside and you check you coat, get your drink, etc., start your walk around the club. When you see a girl or group of girls you want to meet, go in and say something funny or interesting that isn’t something they have already heard ten times that night.
An example conversation could go like this:
Me: (serious look) “Hey.Are you guys going to like me better the 3rd time you see me?”
Girls: “Huh.What do you mean?”
Me: “Well I’ve already walked past you guys twice and you guys haven’t said “hi” to me or “hello” or grabbed my ass or anything! What’s goin on?”
Girls: (laughing) “Hi my name’s Jen, and this is Carrie. What’s yours?”
Me: “Craig. Nice to meet you. Now, next time I see you all I’m going to expect a warm welcome!”
Here comes the MOST powerful part of this technique.After you exchange a few laughs.MOVE ON OUT! This is huge because every other guy they have ever met has leached on at the first sign of acceptance and tried to hang out with them all night! How desperate is that? By ending the conversation first you have shown them that you are a secure guy who doesn’t care if he sees them again, or if they talk to other guys. And why should you? You have many more groups of women to approach!
The whole idea here is to get them laughing, show them you are a fun guy that they would want to hang out with, then leave.with them wanting more! In sales this is called a takeaway.
Do the same thing with the next group. If a girl is by herself don’t leave her out of the loop, but don’t use that as an excuse to latch on. If a conversation is going really well with a certain group or girl, it is ok to keep it up, just make sure that you are the one to end it and that you end it
while both of you are still laughing and having fun.
This structure eliminates a lot of mistakes and conveys a lot of important things. Lets take a look at what’s going on here, and why this works:
· You are showing every woman you meet that you are a fun guy with a great personality.
· Since you are only talking to each group for a short time and you are the one that is ending the conversation, you show them that you aren’t desperate for their attention and you create a challenge. You leave them wanting more!
· You will be seen talking to lots of women, which will make you look desirable and create competition. This is known as “Social Proof”, and creates a presence with everyone around you.
· You are creating a familiarity with these women, so the next time you see them, it’s like you are old buds! The hardest part is behind you!
Best of all, this format allows you to meet tons of women while naturally walking around the club having fun. You are going to have a GREAT time and meet LOTS of people!
I relate this structure to fishing, because it reminds me a TV special I saw once on sharks. When scientists want to catch some sharks to study, they dump a bunch of blood and fish guts in the water to get them all riled up. There’s no real meat in there, but it lets the sharks know that there is something around, and it gets them alert and looking for food.
This is what you’re doing with your initial approach and takeaway. You are letting the girls know you’re in the house and that you are different from the rest of the guys, and you keep them wanting more. I think they said it best in the movie “Swingers”. It’s all about letting the girls know that you’re money and you’re ready to party!
Starting the Frenzy
By the time you are finished with lap number one you will probably have talked to 10-20 girls, some alone and some in groups. There is no set time frame for how long this should take, because every club is different and some conversations will last longer than others. Sometimes I will finish my first lap without doing any approaches because there are no hot women in the bar. In those cases the first lap is usually my last!
On your second go-round you are going to see a few or all of the girls you met on the first pass, depending on the size of the club. Of course some of them will be in the bathroom, on the dance floor, gone home, etc., but new girls are always emerging to take their places. Don’t get lazy and leave them out of the fun!
The girls that you are seeing for the second time already have a good impression of you, and now they’ve seen you talking with lots of other women, so they view you not only as ok to be seen with, but also as desirable to the opposite sex. I don’t need to tell you that this is a good thing!
Now that you have gotten things brewing, it’s time to pull out the bait and see if she grabs it! Your bait is what you do when you see a girl or group of women you have already approached. The goal here is to have a conversation start naturally, like it would if you had met them before.
Your bait can be the same type of thing you did the first time (Eg. Get her laughing with a joke about something in the club, tell a short funny story, ask her a question, etc.) or something on a smaller scale, like a look and a smile. Other things you could do would be to give her a high five, touch her glass with yours as you walk by and say “cheers”, or my personal favorite, and accuse
her of following you, and tell her to stop!
From now on every time you see her throw her some kind of bait and see if she grabs on to it. By throwing the bait you are giving her an easy way to start talking to you, and that is what you are waiting for. For instance, if you make a joke, see if she makes a funny comment back. If you touch her glass and say “cheers”, she might ask you what you’re drinking. She may say something unrelated to your bait, like “Nice necklace” or “Where did you get that ring?” If she asks you a question it’s always a good sign. One that I here all of the time is, “You look familiar.Where do I know you from?” To this I answer, “Do you watch adult movies?”
If she doesn’t take the bait keep on walking! Some girls will take the bait right away and a conversation will start naturally, and other conversations might not happen until you have seen them 5 or 6 six times. That’s a good thing, because every time you see her you are reminding her about you and building anticipation.
The most important thing you are doing here that most guys miss is that you are setting yourself up as a challenge. People don’t value what they don’t have to work for, and to most women, especially attractive women, men are too easy!
Imagine if you were a beautiful woman, and you had guys kissing your ass and begging to be with you your entire life. It gets old fast, and when a woman like this meets a man who doesn’t put her on a pedestal and makes her chase after him, it drives her crazy!
Every woman loves a challenge, and this will separate you from 99% of the guys out there. Ask a few girls you know about this, and ask them to describe how a man can be a challenge to them. You will gain some really valuable insight.
The familiarity that this method creates is one of the reasons why it is so effective. If you do your job on the first contact with a new girl, or group of girls, the next time you see them they will remember you and all of their walls will have come down.
This plays a HUGE part when you are dealing with groups, because when women go out they will naturally try to keep their friends together and keep them from getting hit on. If you approach the group as a whole a few times and show them what type of person you are, it will make it much easier to isolate your target when that time comes. Instead of the girls being cautious about their friend leaving, they will be jealous!
Reeling in the Fish
After a few rounds in the club you are probably going to have a one or two women that you have a really good feeling about. Maybe the two of you had a great conversation, maybe she “accidentally” touched your arm a few too many times, or maybe she is just the hottest woman you’ve talked to all night. Either way, it’s time to close the deal!
Now that you have it narrowed down it’s ok to seek your woman out, and the sooner the better. Make sure you stick with the bait formula. When you find her say something funny, ask her a question, or make a comment about something to give her the opportunity to start a conversation.
If she’s with her group of friends, it’s time to isolate her and make your move! You don’t have to take her away from her friends completely, but it is important to get into a one-on-one conversation with her.
Remember, the main reason her friends may try to “cockblock” is because they aren’t sure if their friend is into you and they want to “save” her. Hopefully when you were making your rounds you talked to the group as a whole, or they at least saw their friend give you a positive reaction. This familiarity will give you a big advantage.
Ending Conversations
It’s always good to end a conversation first, and a great way to do it is to say, “Hey it was nice meeting you.I’m gonna catch up with my friends. Maybe I’ll see you later”.
Saying “maybe” is very important. It shows that you don’t care if you do see her again, and it leaves her wondering if you will. If you say, “I’ll catch up with you later” she knows that she is gonna see you again and it removes part of the mystery and the challenge that women need to feel attraction.
On Group Approaches and Cock Blocks
If a girl is with her friends but they are out of earshot or already talking to others, it is ok to single her out and talk to her by herself. If her friends come back and interrupt don’t worry about it.It’s their job to watch out for their friend. Think nothing of it and include her friends in the conversation.
If one of her friends completely captures her attention for more than a few seconds, don’t stand around like a puppy! If you were just throwing a little bait and the two of you hadn’t really started talking yet, keep right on walking without saying anything. If the conversation was flowing nicely you can do one of two things.
Your first option is to end the conversation as you normally would, but shorten it to, “Maybe I’ll see you later” and walk away. If it’s really on or it’s getting late and your not sure if you will see her again, turn away at least 90 degrees and do something. Light a smoke, order a drink, check your phone, etc, and wait for HER to come back to YOU. If she doesn’t come back, either start talking to someone else or walk away. When you see her again she will respect you for being your own person and not waiting around like a chump.
On-Going Cycle
The nice thing about this cycle is that it doesn’t limit itself to one night, because you are always meeting new girls and throwing bait to old ones. I used to live in a smaller town with only 3 bars, and at the end of every night there would be certain girls that I had talked too only once and others that I had talked too 3 or 4 times a night for months.
Some of the girls would come around eventually and we would end up hooking up, while others became great bar buddies that would introduce me to their cute girlfriends! Damn I love this stuff!
When I moved to a bigger city I thought it would be different since there are literally hundreds of bars here, but I learned that every town has it’s own bar scene and you will always run into a lot of the same people. The cycle continues!
The Natural Way
When I go out to a club I look like a normal, social guy that happens to get a lot of women. No one would ever label me a “Lounge Lizard” or a “Pimp”, because to the untrained eye and the women around, it appears as though I am just hanging out like everyone else, and having a little bit more fun. This is very important because if a woman thinks you are a pick up artist and you do this all the time, you will have to work ten times harder to make it happen.
I have a friend that I go out clubbing with all of the time, but we never really talk about techniques since we have very different styles. He overheard me explaining this method to someone and said, “You mean you are actually doing something when you are walking around like that?” And I hit the town with this guy all the time!
This format is designed to be a natural way to meet women. If you want to grab a drink or have a smoke along the way, feel free. You are there to have a great time! If you run into some of your buddies, by all means stay and have a beer. If you run into some girls that you know, stay and chat longer because the other girls in the club will see you (social proof) and your girlfriends
may know some cuties that you should meet!
(posted by Craig on Mystery’s Lounge)
Saturday, July 7, 2007
Friday, July 6, 2007
Boa Approaches
So gestern war also mal wieder After Work party im BOA. Zwar war eigentlich gestern eher Party angesagt, aber man kanns ja nicht lassen das erlernte und angelesene auszubrobieren ;)
2. Approaches mit Erfolg durchgeführt... in der Phase als PUA (Pick Up Apprentice) heisst das kein Crash&Burn.... Und *stolz* 2 mal von Frauen geopened worden :D
Also nun mal der Reihe nach. Wir waren mit mehreren Leuten im Club und nach kurzer Eingewöhnungsphase an der Bar sind wir dann alle auch richtig gut drauf gewesen. Darauf hin haben wir mit 3 Leuten eine Wette abgeschlossen, gezielt die Namen von HBs rauszubekommen und kurze Gespräche zu führen. Deal war jeder bekommt von den anderen ein target zugewiesen, das er angehen sollte um Infos zu bekommen. (Eigentlich ne lustige Übung um Approach anxiety zu überwinden)
1. Approach: HB8.5 auf Tanzfläche mit Freundin HB6.5. Hab mir das ganze sehr unauffällig (Rücken zum Set)angeschaut und gemerkt, daß HB8.5 die ganze Zeit von irgend welchen Männern angetanzt wird. Nachdem einer Sie gerade angesprochen hatte und Sie zwar schüchtern aber eindeutig signalisiert hat, daß Sie kein Interesse hat bin ich mit der "Crash&Burn" Routine rein... ungefähr so:
Av: Tipp auf Schulter und zu mir winken (hätte übrigens nie gedacht, daß ein HB dann wirklich sich an Ihm vorbeidrückt um zu hören was ich Ihr sagen will) "Hi Du sach mal, er gibt sich soviel Mühe, ich glaub der mag Dich wirklich."
HB: "Das mag schon sein, aber ich hab nen Freund"
Av: "warte mal" dreh mich zu Ihm "Wie heisst Du?"
AFC: "Marti" - oder so ähnlich - war aber auch egal ;)
Av: zu HB "Hey das hier ist Marti und Du heisst?"
HB: lächelt "Anegret..." Av: "Wie???" HB:"Anegret" (wie kann ein HB nur Anegret heissen - die Eltern gehören verklagt)
Av: "Also Anegret, das ist Marti..." Nehm sie und Ihn links und rechts von mir in den Arm "... Ihr sehrt so süss miteinander aus Ihr passt echt gut zueinander..." HB:"Aber ich hab nen Freund" Av:"Aber wenn Du keinen hättest wärd Ihr echt perfekt füreinander... Ihr seid echt sooooo süss zusammen" zur Freundin "sind die beiden nicht süss" HB6.5: Lacht "Ach eigentlich..." grinst
HB: Lacht mich an "Hey, Du spinnst... neiiin" lacht immer noch
Av:"OK aber ich find heute abend noch den perfekten Mann für dich" dabei hab ich sie ein bisschen geknuddelt "...versprochen!" "Ich muss jetzt mal wieder zu meinen Kumpels"
Später lief sie noch an der Bar vorbei und wir haben uns nett unterhalten. Hab Ihr noch 2-3 AFCs gezeigt, die echt gut zu ihr passen würden. Leider kam ich über den BF nicht weg... eigentlich schade!
2. Approach: Mir wurde ein Ziel zugewiesen (Fast schon HB9), das auf der anderen Seite der Bar war - im abgesperrten Bereich. Hab mir von der Bedienung eine Serviette geben lassen und ein TicTacToe draufgemalt mit einem Kreuz und dem Spruch "Du bist!" - Die Bedienung hat das Ihr dann gegeben. Sie hat mit Ihrer Zigarette ein loch als Kreis gemacht. Die Serviette kam zurück und ich hab noch ein Kreuz gemacht und draufgeschrieben "Kaufst Du mir nen Drink ;-)" Serviette wieder zurück - Sie lacht zeigts Ihrer Freundin und die lacht auch. Ich signalisier Ihr, daß Sie aus dem abgesperrten Bereich rauskommen soll und wir haben uns kurz unterhalten... ich muss das mir der transition und dem Rapport hinbekommen ;-)
Von den beiden die mich angesprochen haben hab ich der HB7 als Sie mich angetanzt hat und immer näher kam nur gesagt "Wenn Du noch nächer kommst und Dich noch mehr an mir reibst verlang ich Eintritt" - der sass!!! Sie schmeisst sich weg vor lachen und wir haben "schön" getanzt und uns gut amüsiert - später sogar noch die ESP routine von mystery durchgezogen - leider die Kurve zum #Close nicht gekriegt - trotzdem goil :)
Ich liebe diesen Scheiss... warum haben wir nicht schon früher was über PU erfahren?
Ach ja hab mich gestern auch mit nem Typen aus der Gruppe unterhalten und wir kamen auf Psychologie. Ich hab mit Ihm mal "the Cube" getestet... 6 richtige Baby - this shit works!!!
2. Approaches mit Erfolg durchgeführt... in der Phase als PUA (Pick Up Apprentice) heisst das kein Crash&Burn.... Und *stolz* 2 mal von Frauen geopened worden :D
Also nun mal der Reihe nach. Wir waren mit mehreren Leuten im Club und nach kurzer Eingewöhnungsphase an der Bar sind wir dann alle auch richtig gut drauf gewesen. Darauf hin haben wir mit 3 Leuten eine Wette abgeschlossen, gezielt die Namen von HBs rauszubekommen und kurze Gespräche zu führen. Deal war jeder bekommt von den anderen ein target zugewiesen, das er angehen sollte um Infos zu bekommen. (Eigentlich ne lustige Übung um Approach anxiety zu überwinden)
1. Approach: HB8.5 auf Tanzfläche mit Freundin HB6.5. Hab mir das ganze sehr unauffällig (Rücken zum Set)angeschaut und gemerkt, daß HB8.5 die ganze Zeit von irgend welchen Männern angetanzt wird. Nachdem einer Sie gerade angesprochen hatte und Sie zwar schüchtern aber eindeutig signalisiert hat, daß Sie kein Interesse hat bin ich mit der "Crash&Burn" Routine rein... ungefähr so:
Av: Tipp auf Schulter und zu mir winken (hätte übrigens nie gedacht, daß ein HB dann wirklich sich an Ihm vorbeidrückt um zu hören was ich Ihr sagen will) "Hi Du sach mal, er gibt sich soviel Mühe, ich glaub der mag Dich wirklich."
HB: "Das mag schon sein, aber ich hab nen Freund"
Av: "warte mal" dreh mich zu Ihm "Wie heisst Du?"
AFC: "Marti" - oder so ähnlich - war aber auch egal ;)
Av: zu HB "Hey das hier ist Marti und Du heisst?"
HB: lächelt "Anegret..." Av: "Wie???" HB:"Anegret" (wie kann ein HB nur Anegret heissen - die Eltern gehören verklagt)
Av: "Also Anegret, das ist Marti..." Nehm sie und Ihn links und rechts von mir in den Arm "... Ihr sehrt so süss miteinander aus Ihr passt echt gut zueinander..." HB:"Aber ich hab nen Freund" Av:"Aber wenn Du keinen hättest wärd Ihr echt perfekt füreinander... Ihr seid echt sooooo süss zusammen" zur Freundin "sind die beiden nicht süss" HB6.5: Lacht "Ach eigentlich..." grinst
HB: Lacht mich an "Hey, Du spinnst... neiiin" lacht immer noch
Av:"OK aber ich find heute abend noch den perfekten Mann für dich" dabei hab ich sie ein bisschen geknuddelt "...versprochen!" "Ich muss jetzt mal wieder zu meinen Kumpels"
Später lief sie noch an der Bar vorbei und wir haben uns nett unterhalten. Hab Ihr noch 2-3 AFCs gezeigt, die echt gut zu ihr passen würden. Leider kam ich über den BF nicht weg... eigentlich schade!
2. Approach: Mir wurde ein Ziel zugewiesen (Fast schon HB9), das auf der anderen Seite der Bar war - im abgesperrten Bereich. Hab mir von der Bedienung eine Serviette geben lassen und ein TicTacToe draufgemalt mit einem Kreuz und dem Spruch "Du bist!" - Die Bedienung hat das Ihr dann gegeben. Sie hat mit Ihrer Zigarette ein loch als Kreis gemacht. Die Serviette kam zurück und ich hab noch ein Kreuz gemacht und draufgeschrieben "Kaufst Du mir nen Drink ;-)" Serviette wieder zurück - Sie lacht zeigts Ihrer Freundin und die lacht auch. Ich signalisier Ihr, daß Sie aus dem abgesperrten Bereich rauskommen soll und wir haben uns kurz unterhalten... ich muss das mir der transition und dem Rapport hinbekommen ;-)
Von den beiden die mich angesprochen haben hab ich der HB7 als Sie mich angetanzt hat und immer näher kam nur gesagt "Wenn Du noch nächer kommst und Dich noch mehr an mir reibst verlang ich Eintritt" - der sass!!! Sie schmeisst sich weg vor lachen und wir haben "schön" getanzt und uns gut amüsiert - später sogar noch die ESP routine von mystery durchgezogen - leider die Kurve zum #Close nicht gekriegt - trotzdem goil :)
Ich liebe diesen Scheiss... warum haben wir nicht schon früher was über PU erfahren?
Ach ja hab mich gestern auch mit nem Typen aus der Gruppe unterhalten und wir kamen auf Psychologie. Ich hab mit Ihm mal "the Cube" getestet... 6 richtige Baby - this shit works!!!
Erste Versuche ohne Stützräder...
Im Schwimmbad:
Skull: "Jetzt ziehst Du schon seit 10 Minuten Deine Bahnen neben mir und hast immer noch nicht "Hallo" gesagt. Bist Du etwa schüchtern?"
"Nein, aber es sah so aus, als ob Du genug damit zu tun gehabt hättest,
über Wasser zu bleiben..."
Skull: "Bei Dir war ich aber auch nicht ganz sicher, ob das jetzt schwimmen oder tauchen war. Du hast aber einen ganz guten Zug drauf. Vielleicht wärst Du noch schneller, wenn Du diese modisch schicke Badekappe abnehmen würdest, die erklärt dann auch den Wasserwiderstand"...
:-X
Skull: "Jetzt ziehst Du schon seit 10 Minuten Deine Bahnen neben mir und hast immer noch nicht "Hallo" gesagt. Bist Du etwa schüchtern?"
"Nein, aber es sah so aus, als ob Du genug damit zu tun gehabt hättest,
über Wasser zu bleiben..."
Skull: "Bei Dir war ich aber auch nicht ganz sicher, ob das jetzt schwimmen oder tauchen war. Du hast aber einen ganz guten Zug drauf. Vielleicht wärst Du noch schneller, wenn Du diese modisch schicke Badekappe abnehmen würdest, die erklärt dann auch den Wasserwiderstand"...
:-X
Wednesday, July 4, 2007
Mystery at his best
Klassisch:
Situational Opener
Greet the DJ
Bitch fight routine
Sexual negging
lass Sie Dich gewinnen... "beauty is very common"
Tuesday, July 3, 2007
Monday, July 2, 2007
The Game
Forest Pattern:
You are walking in a dark forest. How do youfeel. (how she approaches life).
You could to a wall with a door. What do you do? (how she approaches obsticalls).
You look down and see a cup on the ground what is it made out of? (how she views wealth).
You come to some water, describe it. (how she views sexuality).
Always end with sexuality because it is a good topic for PU and demonstrates you are comfortable with women and people a sexual context.
Another one of those mindfuck games like 4 questions or the cube:
"The Wall and the Forest"
-You are walking in a field, you see a wall, how high is it, and how do you get by it? [wall = pride, and also how you get past obstacles]
-you continue walking, and you see a house [kind of house you dream to have later in life]
-you see a key on the ground, you go to the house, does the key open the door? [if yes, means you can get married]
-you go in the house (if you were able to open with the key), and on the first floor you see a table and chairs, how many chairs are there? [means how many people in your future family]
-now you go outside, and see to one direction a dense dark forest, and the other way, a less dense/brighter wooded area. Which way do you go? (dark forest=expect something, but unknown, take a chance) (bright wooded area=easygoing style/way)
-as you walk you then see a lake nearby. How big is it, and how deep is it? (big=size of your heart, depth=depth of your heart
You are walking in a dark forest. How do youfeel. (how she approaches life).
You could to a wall with a door. What do you do? (how she approaches obsticalls).
You look down and see a cup on the ground what is it made out of? (how she views wealth).
You come to some water, describe it. (how she views sexuality).
Always end with sexuality because it is a good topic for PU and demonstrates you are comfortable with women and people a sexual context.
Another one of those mindfuck games like 4 questions or the cube:
"The Wall and the Forest"
-You are walking in a field, you see a wall, how high is it, and how do you get by it? [wall = pride, and also how you get past obstacles]
-you continue walking, and you see a house [kind of house you dream to have later in life]
-you see a key on the ground, you go to the house, does the key open the door? [if yes, means you can get married]
-you go in the house (if you were able to open with the key), and on the first floor you see a table and chairs, how many chairs are there? [means how many people in your future family]
-now you go outside, and see to one direction a dense dark forest, and the other way, a less dense/brighter wooded area. Which way do you go? (dark forest=expect something, but unknown, take a chance) (bright wooded area=easygoing style/way)
-as you walk you then see a lake nearby. How big is it, and how deep is it? (big=size of your heart, depth=depth of your heart
Opener
Bitchfight:
M: Oh mein Gott. Hast Du die Mädels draussen gesehen, die sich gekloppt haben?
HB: Nein, was ist passiert?
M: Da haben sich 2 um nen Typen geschlagen, der gerade mal halb so gross wie sie selbst war. War ziehmlich brutal! Er stand nur da und hat gelacht, bis die Türsteher/die Polzei eingegriffen haben.
Opinion:
Ich brauch mal ne weibliche Meinung....
Beim shoppen: Steht mir dies oder das besser??? Oh, OK, dann nehm ich wohl lieber doch das hier
2 Part Kiss opener
PICKING UP CHICKS (unknown) Just open with “Hi, we’re picking up chicks”… its C&F
NEVER BE COUPLE (ijjjji, TD) "Aww - you are soo cute.. but you make me SO SAD! (HB:WHY?) (pause with puppy dog face) Cos we could NEVER EVER be a couple! (HB:WHYYY???) Nooo.. we are too similar.. IMAGINE, we would be SO IN LOVE.. and the next moment, we would be fighting and screaming and throwing things.. and then we would have HOT MAKE UP SEX all over the place.. and then fight, makeup sex, fight, make up sex.. after a week we would both be in psychiatric care due to emotional drainage!"
Der ist für Skull: ;-)
SIMPSONS OPENER (Gunwitch) Hey do you ever watch The Simpsons? Why has Marge never left Homer, I mean she’s a sexy bitch and he’s a deadbeat who fucks up all the time.
INTRODUCTION OPENER (ijjjji) PUA: (nehmt ein SHB überraschend am Arm und zeigt auf irgendeinen Typen) "OMG, der Typ da drüben ist PERFEKT für Dich - komm ich stell Ihn Dir vor!!" (fangt an mit Ihr auf den Typen zuzugehen)
SHB: Was?! Nein.. NeinNeinNein.. haha.. Hilfe!
PUA: (zu dem Typen) Sie ist so schüchtern, aber Sie will Dich wirklich kennen lernen!
SHB: (Kichert hysterisch) Nein... das stimmt nicht!(Will fliehen)
PUA: Ach komm schon.. sein nicht so schüchtern..
Both girls were very hot and totally stuck up before I did this. Both of them came back and talked to me several times during the evening, to tell me how crazy I was... (IjjjI)
MYSTERY’S ESP (Mystery) Walk up to a girl and say, "Do you believe in ESP?" Remember to SMILE or you may startle her. "Just think of the first # that pops into your head from one to four. Don’t say it. Just think it ... now take that # and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head. Have you done that?"
She says OK
"What’s so neat about imagination is ... we both have it ... On the blackboard, I see the number ... three."
Whether you get it right or not reply.
"Alright, lets try this one more time. This time think of a different # from one to 10. Got it? Picture it in white chalk on the blackboard ... you are thinking of the number ... 7."
If you got the first wrong and the second right, you look like you finally got it ... a 1 in 10 chance. If you get BOTH right (a 90% chance seeing as it is a psychological trick where most north Americans naturally choose 3 and 7 as their first picks) that’s a 1 in 40 chance ... "and of course I don’t stake my reputation on mere chance."
If you get the first right but the second wrong or both wrong, say... "PROOF! ESP does NOT exist!" Then start to laugh like this "Mooa ha ha ha ha ha ha! And you believe in ESP!" a good neg hit to start. If she mentions that most people pick 3 and 7 (most girls wont know this though) just say, "really? Hmm… didn’t know that ... thank you Cliff Claven." (From Cheers)
If you take the wording I have and do this EXACTLY as stated, you will be surprised HOW well you will do. When they ask HOW, tell them ... I DON’T KNOW. Tell her you can SEE the #s on your imaginary blackboard. This is NOT a trick. You hate magicians. If she wants you to do this again, tell her ... "don’t be greedy now."
Speaking of greedy ... if a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only one ... don't be greedy." This is a good NEG HIT. Mild but a neg hit nonetheless. If she says, "Yes, but I’m French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?"
COLOGNE OPENER (MM) In a mall put on a different cologne on each wrist and ask girls which one smells better on you. Go back and forth several times between arms and make cute faces when you do.
Have something queued up and ready to go immediately afterwards.
Angel V: You can be my Stylecoach / Fashion advisor - you got the job.
ARE YOU SHY? (unknown) Are you guys shy? I’ve been standing here talking to my friend for like 5 minutes now and you still haven’t said ‘hi”
C&F
Hey, Laura! (Big hug). I haven't seen you forEVER!! (huge kiss) Wow, you've really changed! (I'm not Laura) What? Oh my God, you even changed your name!
Nach intensiverem EC:
Das einzige was mir Deine Augen bisher noch nicht verraten haben ist Dein name - dann Cold read dranhängen bevor Sie den Namen sagt.
M: Oh mein Gott. Hast Du die Mädels draussen gesehen, die sich gekloppt haben?
HB: Nein, was ist passiert?
M: Da haben sich 2 um nen Typen geschlagen, der gerade mal halb so gross wie sie selbst war. War ziehmlich brutal! Er stand nur da und hat gelacht, bis die Türsteher/die Polzei eingegriffen haben.
Opinion:
Ich brauch mal ne weibliche Meinung....
Beim shoppen: Steht mir dies oder das besser??? Oh, OK, dann nehm ich wohl lieber doch das hier
2 Part Kiss opener
PICKING UP CHICKS (unknown) Just open with “Hi, we’re picking up chicks”… its C&F
NEVER BE COUPLE (ijjjji, TD) "Aww - you are soo cute.. but you make me SO SAD! (HB:WHY?) (pause with puppy dog face) Cos we could NEVER EVER be a couple! (HB:WHYYY???) Nooo.. we are too similar.. IMAGINE, we would be SO IN LOVE.. and the next moment, we would be fighting and screaming and throwing things.. and then we would have HOT MAKE UP SEX all over the place.. and then fight, makeup sex, fight, make up sex.. after a week we would both be in psychiatric care due to emotional drainage!"
Der ist für Skull: ;-)
SIMPSONS OPENER (Gunwitch) Hey do you ever watch The Simpsons? Why has Marge never left Homer, I mean she’s a sexy bitch and he’s a deadbeat who fucks up all the time.
INTRODUCTION OPENER (ijjjji) PUA: (nehmt ein SHB überraschend am Arm und zeigt auf irgendeinen Typen) "OMG, der Typ da drüben ist PERFEKT für Dich - komm ich stell Ihn Dir vor!!" (fangt an mit Ihr auf den Typen zuzugehen)
SHB: Was?! Nein.. NeinNeinNein.. haha.. Hilfe!
PUA: (zu dem Typen) Sie ist so schüchtern, aber Sie will Dich wirklich kennen lernen!
SHB: (Kichert hysterisch) Nein... das stimmt nicht!(Will fliehen)
PUA: Ach komm schon.. sein nicht so schüchtern..
Both girls were very hot and totally stuck up before I did this. Both of them came back and talked to me several times during the evening, to tell me how crazy I was... (IjjjI)
MYSTERY’S ESP (Mystery) Walk up to a girl and say, "Do you believe in ESP?" Remember to SMILE or you may startle her. "Just think of the first # that pops into your head from one to four. Don’t say it. Just think it ... now take that # and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head. Have you done that?"
She says OK
"What’s so neat about imagination is ... we both have it ... On the blackboard, I see the number ... three."
Whether you get it right or not reply.
"Alright, lets try this one more time. This time think of a different # from one to 10. Got it? Picture it in white chalk on the blackboard ... you are thinking of the number ... 7."
If you got the first wrong and the second right, you look like you finally got it ... a 1 in 10 chance. If you get BOTH right (a 90% chance seeing as it is a psychological trick where most north Americans naturally choose 3 and 7 as their first picks) that’s a 1 in 40 chance ... "and of course I don’t stake my reputation on mere chance."
If you get the first right but the second wrong or both wrong, say... "PROOF! ESP does NOT exist!" Then start to laugh like this "Mooa ha ha ha ha ha ha! And you believe in ESP!" a good neg hit to start. If she mentions that most people pick 3 and 7 (most girls wont know this though) just say, "really? Hmm… didn’t know that ... thank you Cliff Claven." (From Cheers)
If you take the wording I have and do this EXACTLY as stated, you will be surprised HOW well you will do. When they ask HOW, tell them ... I DON’T KNOW. Tell her you can SEE the #s on your imaginary blackboard. This is NOT a trick. You hate magicians. If she wants you to do this again, tell her ... "don’t be greedy now."
Speaking of greedy ... if a girl kisses you on the cheek and goes to kiss your other cheek, tell her, "Only one ... don't be greedy." This is a good NEG HIT. Mild but a neg hit nonetheless. If she says, "Yes, but I’m French", you reply, "Are all French girls as greedy as you?"
COLOGNE OPENER (MM) In a mall put on a different cologne on each wrist and ask girls which one smells better on you. Go back and forth several times between arms and make cute faces when you do.
Have something queued up and ready to go immediately afterwards.
Angel V: You can be my Stylecoach / Fashion advisor - you got the job.
ARE YOU SHY? (unknown) Are you guys shy? I’ve been standing here talking to my friend for like 5 minutes now and you still haven’t said ‘hi”
C&F
Hey, Laura! (Big hug). I haven't seen you forEVER!! (huge kiss) Wow, you've really changed! (I'm not Laura) What? Oh my God, you even changed your name!
Nach intensiverem EC:
Das einzige was mir Deine Augen bisher noch nicht verraten haben ist Dein name - dann Cold read dranhängen bevor Sie den Namen sagt.
Neghits
Haar:
Ist das eine Perücke? Oh, naja sie trotzdem sehr schön aus.
Ich glaube Deine Haar würde hochgesteckt / lang besser ausssehen
Wie nennt man so eine Frisur? Avantgarde? *dabei lächeln*
Augen:
Du hast noch etwas Schlaf in den Augen. Nein nicht reiben, ich *mag* verschlafene Augen.
Du hast wunderschöne Augen. Darf ich mal anfassen.
Du blinzelst ganz schön oft. Mach ich Dich nervös?
Hände:
Du hast irgendwie Männerhände *lächeln*
Schöne Fingernägel, Sind die Echt? ... Naja egal, sind trotzdem sehr schön.
Nase:
Wie niedlich, Deine Nase wackelt wenn Du sprichst. Sag doch nochmal was *lächeln*
Kleidung:
Ich mag dein shirt/Rock. Die sind zur zeit ja voll inn.
Ich mag Deinen Rock. Ich hab gerade vor ein Paar Minuten eine Andere mit dem gleiche gesehen.
Ich glaub ich hab Dich schon mal in diesem Kleid gesehen.
Sonstige:
Tschuldigung... darf ich bitte aussprechen. Du willst doch nicht unhöflich sein.
Hey, Du hast mich angespuckt!
M: "Schade, aber ich glaube wir sollten uns lieber nicht besser kennen lernen." HB: "Warum?" M: "Ich glaube Du bist einfach ein VIEL ZU LIEBES Mädchen für mich." HB: sie beisst bestimmt an
Ist das eine Perücke? Oh, naja sie trotzdem sehr schön aus.
Ich glaube Deine Haar würde hochgesteckt / lang besser ausssehen
Wie nennt man so eine Frisur? Avantgarde? *dabei lächeln*
Augen:
Du hast noch etwas Schlaf in den Augen. Nein nicht reiben, ich *mag* verschlafene Augen.
Du hast wunderschöne Augen. Darf ich mal anfassen.
Du blinzelst ganz schön oft. Mach ich Dich nervös?
Hände:
Du hast irgendwie Männerhände *lächeln*
Schöne Fingernägel, Sind die Echt? ... Naja egal, sind trotzdem sehr schön.
Nase:
Wie niedlich, Deine Nase wackelt wenn Du sprichst. Sag doch nochmal was *lächeln*
Kleidung:
Ich mag dein shirt/Rock. Die sind zur zeit ja voll inn.
Ich mag Deinen Rock. Ich hab gerade vor ein Paar Minuten eine Andere mit dem gleiche gesehen.
Ich glaub ich hab Dich schon mal in diesem Kleid gesehen.
Sonstige:
Tschuldigung... darf ich bitte aussprechen. Du willst doch nicht unhöflich sein.
Hey, Du hast mich angespuckt!
M: "Schade, aber ich glaube wir sollten uns lieber nicht besser kennen lernen." HB: "Warum?" M: "Ich glaube Du bist einfach ein VIEL ZU LIEBES Mädchen für mich." HB: sie beisst bestimmt an
Mystery Methode
1. Lächle, wenn Du einen Raum betrittst. Sobald sich ein Set auftut unbedingt die 3 Sekunden Regel beachten. Auf keinen Fall zögern - sofort den “Approach” starten. (Und wenn es nur ein “Hi, wie gehts?” ist - denn Übung macht den Meister!)
2. Bring Deinen Opener, oder gleich 2 oder 3 am Stück.
3. Der “Opener” muss nicht nur das direkte Ziel sondern die gesamte Gruppe (das Set) öffnen um effektiv zu sein. Beim sprechen das Ziel die meiste Zeit ignorieren. Wenn Männer Teil der Gruppe sind, dann fokussiert Euch auf die Männer.
4. Gebt dem Ziel im Gespäch ein paar “Neghits” z.B.: “Ist ja niedlich, Deine Nase wackelt wenn Du lachst” Dann macht Ihre Freunde darauf aufmerksam, damit sie mitlachen können ;-)
5. Bringt eure Persönlichkeit ins Gespräch mit ein und zeigt der Gruppe wer Ihr seid (Achtung!! Nicht überheblich oder zu Macho werden!!)
Nutzt Geschichten, Magie, Handlesen, Anekdoten oder Humor - evtl. etwas Sarkasmus. Konzentriert Eure Aufmerksamkeit hauptsächlich auf die Männer und die weniger attraktiven Frauen. Während dieser Zeit wird das Ziel langsam merken, daß Ihr die Aufmerksamkeit aller geniesst. Um Hindernisse zu überkommen könnt Ihr auch auf “gelernte Routinen” (z.B. Photoroutine) zurückgreifen.
6. Nochmal “Neghits” wenn es angebracht erscheint. Will Sie z.B. auch auf die Photos schauen sagt: “Hilfe Sie ist ganz schön besitzergreifend. ist sie immer so?”
7. Fragt die Gruppe: “Woher kennt Ihr Euch alle?” (Hiermit checkt Ihr das Beziehungsgeflecht untereinander und identifiziert evtl. Hindernisse) Falls einer der Jungs der BF ist, dann findet heraus wie lange sie schon zusammen sind. Bei LTR verabschiedet Euch mit sowas wie: “Ich muss mal wieder weiter / zurück - war nett Euch kennen zu lernen / bis später.”
8. Wenn Sie nicht von Ihren Freunden wieder mit eingebunden wird - perfekt! Sagt der Gruppe: “Ich glaub ich hab Eure Freundin hier etwas unrecht getan. Ist es Ok wenn ich ein Paar Minuten mit Ihr spreche? Natürlich nur, wenn es für Sie Ok ist (blick zu Ihr)” Bei der richtigen Anwendung von Step 1 bis 7 wird Sie nichts dagegen haben.
9. Isoliert Sie von der Gruppe, indem Ihr Ihr sagt, Ihr wollt Ihr etwas cooles zeigen. Nehmt sie mit, um sich irgendwo hinzusetzen. Nehmt ruhig Ihre Hand - Ihre Reaktion ist der erste IOI
10. Setzt Euch mit Ihr hin und macht irgendetwas was Sie fasziniert. Taschenspieler - tricks, Zahlemagie, Handlesen, ESP test - eigentlich egal - irgendetwas, das Sie fasziniert.
11. Nun gebt Ihr die Möglichkeit Euch zu zeigen, was Sie besonders macht. z.B. “Du weisst bestimmt, daß Du gut aussiehst, aber Schönheit ist vergänglich und nicht wirklich etwas nach dem ich Menschen gerne beurteile (keine Angst an diesem Punkt wird Sie Euch das sogar glauben). Was sind denn die Dinge, die mich dazu bringen könnten Dich nicht nur als hübsches Gesicht in der Masse in Erinnerung zu behalten.” Sobald Sie darauf eingeht - klassisches IOI !!!
12. Stopt das Gespräch und leht Euch zurück. Wenn Sie das gespräch wieder auf nimmt. z.B. mit “Also...”
IOI nummer 3 ... nun ist es Zeit für den close.
13. Kiss Close. Sagt ganz überraschend: “Würdest DU mich gerne küssen?”
Wenn die Umstände oder das Umfeld es nicht zulassen auf Tuchfühlung zu gehen dann macht eine “timebrigde” oder bleibt offen mit “Ich muss leider wieder los, Was könnten wir denn tun um dieses Gespräch fortzusetzen? / aber wir sollten dieses Gespräch auf jeden Fall fortführen / ” - dann lasst euch die Nummer geben und geht.
2. Bring Deinen Opener, oder gleich 2 oder 3 am Stück.
3. Der “Opener” muss nicht nur das direkte Ziel sondern die gesamte Gruppe (das Set) öffnen um effektiv zu sein. Beim sprechen das Ziel die meiste Zeit ignorieren. Wenn Männer Teil der Gruppe sind, dann fokussiert Euch auf die Männer.
4. Gebt dem Ziel im Gespäch ein paar “Neghits” z.B.: “Ist ja niedlich, Deine Nase wackelt wenn Du lachst” Dann macht Ihre Freunde darauf aufmerksam, damit sie mitlachen können ;-)
5. Bringt eure Persönlichkeit ins Gespräch mit ein und zeigt der Gruppe wer Ihr seid (Achtung!! Nicht überheblich oder zu Macho werden!!)
Nutzt Geschichten, Magie, Handlesen, Anekdoten oder Humor - evtl. etwas Sarkasmus. Konzentriert Eure Aufmerksamkeit hauptsächlich auf die Männer und die weniger attraktiven Frauen. Während dieser Zeit wird das Ziel langsam merken, daß Ihr die Aufmerksamkeit aller geniesst. Um Hindernisse zu überkommen könnt Ihr auch auf “gelernte Routinen” (z.B. Photoroutine) zurückgreifen.
6. Nochmal “Neghits” wenn es angebracht erscheint. Will Sie z.B. auch auf die Photos schauen sagt: “Hilfe Sie ist ganz schön besitzergreifend. ist sie immer so?”
7. Fragt die Gruppe: “Woher kennt Ihr Euch alle?” (Hiermit checkt Ihr das Beziehungsgeflecht untereinander und identifiziert evtl. Hindernisse) Falls einer der Jungs der BF ist, dann findet heraus wie lange sie schon zusammen sind. Bei LTR verabschiedet Euch mit sowas wie: “Ich muss mal wieder weiter / zurück - war nett Euch kennen zu lernen / bis später.”
8. Wenn Sie nicht von Ihren Freunden wieder mit eingebunden wird - perfekt! Sagt der Gruppe: “Ich glaub ich hab Eure Freundin hier etwas unrecht getan. Ist es Ok wenn ich ein Paar Minuten mit Ihr spreche? Natürlich nur, wenn es für Sie Ok ist (blick zu Ihr)” Bei der richtigen Anwendung von Step 1 bis 7 wird Sie nichts dagegen haben.
9. Isoliert Sie von der Gruppe, indem Ihr Ihr sagt, Ihr wollt Ihr etwas cooles zeigen. Nehmt sie mit, um sich irgendwo hinzusetzen. Nehmt ruhig Ihre Hand - Ihre Reaktion ist der erste IOI
10. Setzt Euch mit Ihr hin und macht irgendetwas was Sie fasziniert. Taschenspieler - tricks, Zahlemagie, Handlesen, ESP test - eigentlich egal - irgendetwas, das Sie fasziniert.
11. Nun gebt Ihr die Möglichkeit Euch zu zeigen, was Sie besonders macht. z.B. “Du weisst bestimmt, daß Du gut aussiehst, aber Schönheit ist vergänglich und nicht wirklich etwas nach dem ich Menschen gerne beurteile (keine Angst an diesem Punkt wird Sie Euch das sogar glauben). Was sind denn die Dinge, die mich dazu bringen könnten Dich nicht nur als hübsches Gesicht in der Masse in Erinnerung zu behalten.” Sobald Sie darauf eingeht - klassisches IOI !!!
12. Stopt das Gespräch und leht Euch zurück. Wenn Sie das gespräch wieder auf nimmt. z.B. mit “Also...”
IOI nummer 3 ... nun ist es Zeit für den close.
13. Kiss Close. Sagt ganz überraschend: “Würdest DU mich gerne küssen?”
Wenn die Umstände oder das Umfeld es nicht zulassen auf Tuchfühlung zu gehen dann macht eine “timebrigde” oder bleibt offen mit “Ich muss leider wieder los, Was könnten wir denn tun um dieses Gespräch fortzusetzen? / aber wir sollten dieses Gespräch auf jeden Fall fortführen / ” - dann lasst euch die Nummer geben und geht.
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